Man, the iPod touch is a lot of work. It took me days to update my iTunes and download all the cd covers missing so I could have the pleasure of displaying them when choosing or listening to my music. Of course, being a moron, I took 2 evenings to download over 760 covers missing by copying thumbnails pictures from Amazon, and then was stunned to see how blurry every picture was once on iTunes. One half look from DR told me I was supposed to open the larger pictures first then download them, so there went another 2 evening and part of yesterday. Now that it’s all done and look really good, I can resume my time online.
In between all this misery, I also finished this amazing book:

Apparently, I was the last person on earth to have heard of this book. We were at a dinner talking about Christmas gift lists when a good friend mentioned that Lovely Bones was one of the best book she had ever read but didn’t own, so she has put in on her list for this year. The day after I found myself at World’s Biggest Bookstore and saw it on a display. I picked it up, curious, and read the description: A 14 year old girl gets raped and murdered and watches the aftermath from “her” heaven. Not the kind of chicklit she normally reads, so I decided to give it a try. The first few pages really drew me in and I was hooked. Alice Sebold is a gifted writer, she cleverly let’s us in her world.
I also was quite surprised to read of the author’s own personal history. Beaten, raped and almost killed in her late teens. A few years later, by pure chance, she sees the man that got away, reports his whereabouts, gets him arrested and tried. The man is found guilty of this crime as well as of other rapes and murders/dismemberments that had been left unsolved. She is now married to Glen David Gold, the author of Carter Beats The Devil, about illusionists at the turn of the century.
I’m glad I read this book. A good chunk of the story takes place in heaven, but not your regular God and Angels heaven which would’ve put me off, it’s more like a place where you can spend as much time as you need/want to understand what has happened, be mad, be angry, watch over your loved ones, try to guide them (in her case, she tries to guide them towards her murderer). As she is more ready and willing to accept her sad fate, little by little she gets to visit larger spaces of her heaven and discover other related people to visit with. There is a heartbreaking/heartwarming scene when she is given directions to a meeting through a field in the middle of her heaven she never thought of walking through before. Obvisously our heroine has never played Xbox games where you don’t leave any area unvisited, but then again, the action takes place in 1973, years before video games warped our minds.
Although dealing with teenage rape and murder and anger and revenge and the destruction of families, this book is surprisingly uplifting at times and is certainly full of hope. A difficult task when dealing with a subject better left to Stephen King.
It made me feel like I wasn’t alone thinking departed loved ones might be watching over me.