Archive for October, 2007


Halloween

Ain’t life a bitch!

Totally ironic that on the day where most people put on a mask and costume to reveal their funner personalities, that mine come off to reveal my vulnerabilities.

Here I am at lunch time, reading in the middle of a crowd where a Halloween costume contest is going on with kids and parents and co-workers cheering each other on and all of a sudden, it all goes away, and I find myself crying, uncontrollably. I’m reading the last in the series of Tales in the City, I’m near the very end, and the author decides to end the serie with a bang by killing one of the main character. I’m tough, I can take this. As he describes the surviving character rushing to the hospital finding the loved one in a coma with a large respirator tube inserted in the throat, I stopped reading and started re-living the events of 4 months ago. The resemblance in the facts were eerie. And I started to tear up. And then I cried. Big large tears falling down.

I took my things and left the rest of my lunch on the table, rushed outside to the sidewalk. It’s downtown Toronto, daytime, people abound, where the fuck am I going to hide. People are looking at me, probably thinking I’m some sort of nut job. I’m waiting for the first one to make a smart remark to the fact that I shouldn’t be crying like this just because I lost the costume contest…

So I go and hide in the washroom at work, hoping this will finally pass… I don’t think I was feeling guilty or anything, but it is the first time I have really cried since the funeral, I guess I had to let it out finally once again.

I miss my dad. I miss our talks about the weather difference between Montreal and Toronto. I miss the stupid things we used to argue about. I miss his toughtfullness, his well-wishingness. I hate that I won’t be seeing him again shortly. I hate that he had to suffer so much before leaving us. But I don’t tell anyone. I keep it all to myself. I bottle it all up until something like today happens. And I embarrass myself in front of everyone for showing that I have feelings too, that I’m not just all about sarcasms and making jokes at other people’s expense.

Well, tonight I won’t be having a stiff drink or feel sorry for myself, I will be going out in costume and have a real good time, remembering that he too loved this day.

Brigth Light City Action

It’s a done deal.

DR and I have booked our flights for our next adventure: a road trip through the Southwestern States.

We will be flying to Las Vegas on the Friday night:

We will rent a cheap car ($249 US for the week, what is that now, $10 CDN?) and check-in some hotel we haven’t booked yet for the first 3 nights.

Some of the things we want to do around Vegas include the Hoover Dam and some of the Grand Canyon, as well as all the great visuals the city offers, day and night. I’d like to see O from Cirque du Soleil and I know DR wants to see The Star Trek Experience. You can laugh if you want, god knows I have.

Then on the Monday morning will will set sails through the Mojave Desert, we have a couple of routes maped out already for our next destination: Palm Springs, where we’ll spend the next 2 nights.

While there, we’ll visit the Joshua Tree National Park and we’ll also be on the lookout for such sights as this:

Then early on Wednesday, we’ll hit the road again for a place I last visited in 1988:

It will be fun to visit the birth of amusement parks once again, especially since it has changed so much in the last few years with the addition of California Adventure Park and their own Downtown Disney. How can you go wrong with a place that carved a grizzly out of rocks as a focal point:

We’ll spend 2 days there, giggles galore.

Which will leave us 2 extra days to go and explore our last stop:

We haven’t really decided what to do there yet, definitely some nice car rides to visit the different neighborhoods, maybe buy a crappy Map of the Stars’ Home…

I did find some things that I know DR would enjoy, all listed here!

We have 9 days to make our leisurely way from Las Vegas and Los Angeles, sounds like we won’t run out of things to do and see. Funny enough, we’re both more excited about driving throuhg the desert more than anything else:

Tintin: Not The One I Remember…

NoFrills Indeed

It’s not a secret I don’t like NoFrills #79, I especially don’t like the one down the street from us. We really only go there for last minute necessities… like this past saturday when we needed nachos for our salsa. We walk to the store, get in, and almost right away are assaulted by this fairly nicely dressed woman, hands in her purse looking for change, she needed $0.25 to release a shopping cart and asked us if we could help her out. I just went on my way, didn’t even look at her, but DR, the gentleman that he is, stopped and fished out a quarter from his pockets, handed it to her and ackwardly waited for her to give him 2 dimes and 1 nickle or something like that, but she just put the quarter in the little gizmo to release the cart and after a few seconds, realizing he was not going to get it, he left and found me past the cashiers on my way to the chips aisle:

DR: She just took the money
Me: Huh?
DR: (giggling) She just took the quarter, she didn’t even give it back to me in change

And swooooooosh, I’m flying to the ingrate lady in nice-ish clothes

Me: You just took the money?
Her: It’s ok, I got a quarter now, thnx!
Me: You just took the money!!! You didn’t repay him with change?
Her: What?
Me: How did you get this cart?
Her: Someone gave me a quarter.
Me: I know that since WE payed for your shopping pleasure today (and turned around, walking away)
Her: Huh? What do you want me to say?
Me: (looking back) Nothing, unless you’re ready to admit that you’re cheap!

I met back with DR and were walking through the chips aisle where she popped out again, hand full of change and handing a quarter back to DR:

Her: There! I didn’t have any but now I do. There’s no need to be so rude about it.
Me: Well, a simple thank you would have avoided this whole thing. We don’t have any obligations in helping you roll your groceries around the store.
DR: You know, there are cashiers to help you out if you need change.
Her: I said thank you, you just didn’t hear me,
Us: Rrrrright!

Don’t get me wrong, a quarter is really not going to make us or break us, it’s really just the principle of the thing, people don’t remember how to be polite anymore #9.

On the same note, I’ve been accused of not being polite recently:

Homeless on the Street: (screaming at the top of her lungs) AArghthhw AAAAAArrhghth AARghththt
Me: (walking down to the street level, looking at her) Ok! Time to go, move it!
Homeless on the Street: (getting up, looking at me straight in the eyes and with fairly good English but still screaming) Why can’t you be polite? Why can’t you be polite?
Me: (a tad stunned) Polite? HUH? Maybe because you’ve been screaming for 4 years at all hours of the day, and keep us awake, annoy the entire neighborhood, and maybe because I just can’t handle you anymore? NOW, GET YOUR ASS OUT OF MY FACE BEFORE I CALL THE COPS ON YOU ONCE AGAIN.

How can I be blamed for forgetting my nice manners!!!

The Weekend? It Just Flew By…

The weekend started sort of early for us: we had Da and Old Audio Dude over for dinner on Thursday night in exchange for help with our home theatre sound system, which he was able to do quickly as he’s a pro. We’re happy! We can now actually hear the surround sound when watching tv or dvd’s through the PVR we purchased 11 months ago… Thnx Old Audio Dude. Oh yeah, for dinner DR made this mexican delicassy:

On Friday, DR and I met after work at Eaton Centre and booked our next vacation. We could book it all ourselves online of course, but we do like this pocket bear guy that works at Flight Centre and don’t mind giving him the business… So it’s official, we’re going out west in March via:

(more about the itinerary later)

Then it was a quick walk to Da’s so we could borrow his car one more time to go get a new TV stand at Ikea, we decided on the Storemark:

We brought it home, built it, transferred the entire media from the old stand to the new one, WITHOUT unplugging any of Old Audio Dude’s handy work, which turned out to be a tad difficult but DR is a wiz so it was all good.

On Saturday, we met Scoundrel and Spudd and were treated to breakfast at The Beacher Cafe in the Beaches:

And I had these delicious french toasts:

It was definitely good to spend the time with these gents, and of course with Scoundrel around, you just laugh and laugh. I texted them “thank you” while on the streetcar ride back home and got a call back instead of a text. He started talking and of course I started laughing out loud with other passengers’ eyes on me, probably thinking I was some kind of a whack job.

On Saturday evening, our good friend Normlr came over for dinner and DR made pork goodness in in a wok:

And I made this fancy-smancy sharkcake:

After dinner, the boys played games on Wii and I sort of passed out on the couch for a bit… but before going home that night, Normlr was kind enough to give me the gift of RAM… I doubled the amount of it on my iMac and couldn’t be happier. I can now open Photoshop, email and internet without having to go make tea while the applications open.. YEH… and thank you once again.

Sunday, we got up in time to watch Coronation Street and went to get breaky at Tim Hortons and FOR ONCE I didn’t have anything to complain about… the service was fast and courteous, we didn’t have to repeat anything… I had to look around to make sure I wasn’t at Starbucks…

Then we went to the Zombie walk:

For the entire picturial, please go to DR’s flickr stream!

After rushing home to take the make-up off and shower, we made our way to meet the Xboys (I call them that because they are boys and they are both avid XBox 360 players) at the movie theatre to watch this gem:

The movie was great, the company was excellent.

Then I was exhausted, I wrote this post when I got home and went to bed… now it’s Monday and I have to go to work… blargh!

Oh! And we haven’t had a working phone since Friday… I had another battle with Rogers Home Phone #52 and I’m giving them one last chance. They are coming over tonight to fix it for the last time.

Movies My Sister & I Loved

Here’s another movie that left a big impression on us… especially me:

This movie got me my nickname…

YEEEEEEHHHHH!

SO THERE!!!

The walk will start at the south end of Trinity Bellwoods park at 3:30 pm. The walk will finish in the area of the Bloor Cinema at approx. 5pm.
(thanks for the reminder, DJ Red Alert)

Books

I just finished reading No Country For Old Men by Cormac McCarthy, and Wow! I have never read a book like this before where rules really don’t apply… there are good people, there are bad people, but at the end of the day, none of them matters. All the action, the gore, the reasoning behind the entire story ends anti-climacticly, but then again, perfectly, and we’re left with a grave american lesson. It didn’t bring me to tears or anything, on the contrary, I turned the last page and smiled, I was so happy I had had this reading experience.

From all the previews that I have seen on the upcoming movie by the Coen brothers, it looks like they have litterally taken the pages and turned them into images, there is nothing in the previews that is not in the book, I can’t wait to see it. I found so much pleasure in reading this novel, I really hope the film does it justice. But then again, it’s the Coen brothers, what could go wrong…

Neighbours

We all have our share of stories with sometimes fun, sometimes weird, sometime nasty neighbours. Here’s such a tale from when I was a young boy:

I grew up on a small island approximately 25 minutes south of Montreal and 40 minutes from the american border, all small towns surrounding us. Our island was very popular in the summer months as it was populated by equal amounts of full-time residents and cottagers, it was your typical little beach town. We always look forward to see our summer friends come back at the end of the school year, but in the winter months, the place felt deserted and typical of Quebec, very cold. I guess that’s why those who could afford it went away to exotic locations and warmed up in the southern sun for weeks at a time.

One such couple who were neighbours, did so every year and they loved Acapulco (they also loved Liberace but that’s a different story). They would leave their pre-teenage son behind with a babysitter and went to sun themselves up for awhile. One winter they must have had a great old time, especially the wife more than the husband because 9 months later, she had a new arrival… that didn’t resemble him at all. You see they were both caucasian folks, both chubby with ligth brown curly hair, as was their pre-teenage son (spitting image of his dad), so it didn’t take long for the speculations to start running amock amongst the full-time residents when they saw the little girl, all dark skin with jet black extra straight hair and her almond shaped eyes, she didn’t look like any Canadian that I knew… she looked very much the little latina that she was. Some said that it was quite the souvenir this mother brought back for herself and my understanding is that she always denied it when confronted but no one really believed her.

To this day, I’m not really sure what really happened on that “special vacation” in Acapulco, but I have a feeling the husband was at some casino, drinking, the night the baby was conceived. I didn’t really speak spanish then, I was just 10 yrs old, but I always felt like greeting her with a joyous Hola whenever I saw her.

I guess what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, but what happens in Acapulco is a different story.

Overheard

Yesterday was a busy day on the sidewalks of Toronto:

On Dundas at Bay
Girl 1: Is Janet married?
Girl 2: Janet Thompson? No, she’s divorced
Guy 1: well, she’s kinda widow, her husband died 2 yrs ago
Girl 1: Oh that explains a lot…
Me (to myself): if she’s kinda widow, doesn’t that mean her husband just kinda died?

On Dundas at Elizabeth
Woman 1: People live above those restaurants, look how dirty the windows are, that’s disgusting!
Man 1: Not just the windows, these are chinese restaurants, I’m sure they’re full of chinese rats and chinese cockroaches.
Woman 1: But look at the windows… that’s just disgusting
Me (to myself): I’m pretty sure these rats and cockroaches are canadian, but the dirty windows aren’t, we’re really a clean window kind of people.

At the movies (Superbad, which uses the words penis, dick, cock about 152 times within the first 10 minutes)
Underaged Girl 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6: ***Talk loud, talk loud, talk loud*** #15
Me: Humphhhhh!
Porperly Aged Girl 1 & Properly Aged Girl 2: *flashing dirty looks in UAG 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6′s direction*
Underaged Girl 1: teehee, he said penis
Underaged Girl 2: BURRRRRRP! (after slurping on that giant Coca-cola of hers)
Underaged Girl 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6: AHAHAHAHAHAH!
Me (loudly): Just how old are you? Fuuuuck… How annoying is that!
Underaged Girl 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6: **silence** (for fear I might go get the manager as they are not even 14 yrs of age)
Properly Aged Girl 1 to Properly Aged Girl 2: Finally!

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